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Cyberbullying

by
Matt DeVico

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Ethan had always enjoyed online gaming. It was a place to escape, connect with friends (both old and new), and test his skills. But lately, that escape had turned into a prison. A group of players, initially friendly acquaintances, had taken a cruel turn. They started with seemingly harmless jokes, poking fun at his username, "Knight****," a handle he'd chosen. Soon, the jokes morphed into taunts. They'd target his every move, real or perceived mistakes, with a barrage of anonymous messages.

"Nice one, Noob****!" one message would read.

Another would follow, "Maybe stick to solitaire, champ."

The comments spread beyond the game. Fake accounts popped up on social media, mirroring the insults and twisting harmless photos with mocking captions. Ethan felt constantly watched, judged by unseen eyes. Sleep became elusive, replaced by a churning mix of anger, humiliation, and a sense of isolation. He retreated from online interactions, the once vibrant world of gaming turning into a minefield. The constant negativity chipped away at his confidence, making him question his skills and even his worth.

One day, a particularly vicious message pushed him to the edge. It wasn't just the usual taunts; it was a serious threat, hinting at something more sinister. Fear, a new and unwelcome emotion, settled in. He knew he couldn't stay silent anymore. Ethan confided in his closest friend online, the one who always played fair and treated him with respect. To his relief, his friend wasn't dismissive. He understood the pain of online cruelty and urged Ethan to involve a trusted adult.

Together, Ethan and his friend devised a plan. They reported the harassment to the gaming platform and, with his parent's help, reached out to the school counselor. Talking about it was hard, but the burden lifted a little with each shared detail. The counselor provided support and guidance, helping him navigate the reporting process and develop strategies to deal with the online negativity.

It wasn't a quick fix. The investigation into the cyberbullying took time, and the whispers lingered for a while. But with the support of his loved ones and the school, Ethan began to reclaim his online space. He found a new group of players who didn’t treat him awfully. He learned to mute toxic players and ignore negativity. Slowly, the joy of gaming returned, a testament to his resilience. The experience left its mark, but it also made him stronger, more aware of the dangers lurking online and the importance of speaking out. And somewhere, deep down, the spirit of "Knight****" still flickered, a reminder that courage doesn't need a face to be real.

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